Hello there, I love when people say that's a negative Ghost Rider. Always makes me laugh alittle. Sometimes saying no can lead to greater positive things that you say Yes too. Things I said no to this week. 1. Are you married? Negative Ghost Rider 2. Don't you want to be married? Negative Ghost Rider.... Isn't that every girls dream at your age? Possibly at Mnu... but it's not something I stress over or think that has to happen right now! 3. Do you have a boyfriend? Negative Ghost Rider. This is my question. Why do people think that you can't be happy without being in a relationship all the time? Well let me tell you I can. Don't get me wrong I'm very happy for all my friends that are married or in relationships. But, I think you can be just as happy or more happy without someone at this given time in life. This is the given point in time in life where so many changes occur: school, work, graduate school, moving, paying bills, you don't have time to see your friends as much as you want! What is the rush? According to Bridal Magazine, the average age for women to get married is 27 and for men 29. If you get married after the age of 25 your marriage is less likely to end in a divorce. Looks like Im golden! You see, I only have well.. a short amount of time (or long) that I can enjoy loving myself and doing what I want and fully developing myself into the pereson I truely want to be! (ha, that probably sounds narcissistic) I have the rest of my life to find that perfect person. If I find that person tomorrow great! If I find that person 5 years from now awesome. If I already know that person.. well than it makes life all the easier! But I'm for sure not going to change who I am, give up what I want in a person or sit around singing Taylor Swift songs, crying, eating a whole tub of ice cream watching soap operas wondering where my prince charming is. Yep.. thats a negative GHOST RIDER.
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Negative Ghost Rider
Hello there, I love when people say that's a negative Ghost Rider. Always makes me laugh alittle. Sometimes saying no can lead to greater positive things that you say Yes too. Things I said no to this week. 1. Are you married? Negative Ghost Rider 2. Don't you want to be married? Negative Ghost Rider.... Isn't that every girls dream at your age? Possibly at Mnu... but it's not something I stress over or think that has to happen right now! 3. Do you have a boyfriend? Negative Ghost Rider. This is my question. Why do people think that you can't be happy without being in a relationship all the time? Well let me tell you I can. Don't get me wrong I'm very happy for all my friends that are married or in relationships. But, I think you can be just as happy or more happy without someone at this given time in life. This is the given point in time in life where so many changes occur: school, work, graduate school, moving, paying bills, you don't have time to see your friends as much as you want! What is the rush? According to Bridal Magazine, the average age for women to get married is 27 and for men 29. If you get married after the age of 25 your marriage is less likely to end in a divorce. Looks like Im golden! You see, I only have well.. a short amount of time (or long) that I can enjoy loving myself and doing what I want and fully developing myself into the pereson I truely want to be! (ha, that probably sounds narcissistic) I have the rest of my life to find that perfect person. If I find that person tomorrow great! If I find that person 5 years from now awesome. If I already know that person.. well than it makes life all the easier! But I'm for sure not going to change who I am, give up what I want in a person or sit around singing Taylor Swift songs, crying, eating a whole tub of ice cream watching soap operas wondering where my prince charming is. Yep.. thats a negative GHOST RIDER.
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